Youth is a time for exploration, but wisdom often comes from experience. In a recent r/AskGayMen thread, older LGBTQ individuals shared invaluable advice with younger gays, urging them to heed the lessons learned over time. One user said, “Listen to older gays around you, even if they’re annoying.” Another user said, “Life isn’t a race. Only you know when the right time is to come out.” These hard-earned lessons from elders show that wisdom and experience are invaluable to navigating the complex journey of being queer. Here are some of the advises Reddit users shared. #Queer Up Gay Culture